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Hopeless romantics..part 1

Mon Nov 2, 2009, 1:35 AM
I've been meaning to write this journal for the past couple weeks but everytime I start I end up stopping and doing something else.

Anyway...I was looking up the definition of hopeless romantic on urban dictionary and these were the answers I liked the best.
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-----This person is in love with love.They believe in fairy tales and love.They're not to be confused as stalkers or creepy because that's not what a hopeless romantic is. All hopeless romantics are idealists,the sentimental dreamers,the imaginative and the fanciful when you get to know them.They often live with rose colored glasses on.They make love look like an art form with all the romantic things they do for their special someone.


-----a person who allows feelings of love to override common sense

-----Hopeless Romantics are NOT Hopeless per-say, but very true, caring, and loving people. They are "NOT MADE FOR TODAYS STANDARDS", sadly. They believe in passion, chivalry, and true love. They have loved sincerely at one point in their life, discovered what love feels like, and can't understand why it was not returned in the same form. Hopeless Romantics are usually dreamers, idealists, and sincere, however what they expect in any relationship is a full return for their effort and caring, to be loved as much as they loved. What makes them "Hopeless" is the fact that they are few and far between in todays daily life, and usually get let down in the long run, even though they gave all they had to give, money, love, time, housing, belongings. Hopeless Romantics give 100% ALL the time, and hope for the same in return.
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After reading all these I got to thinking about how it fits my life and how stupid it seems I've been when it comes to love. As much as I'd love to play the martyr and say it's all unfair and life loves to pick on me. If I just was able to apply one ounce of logic into my love life almost none of the heartbreak i've gone through would have happened. Every relationship i've ever entered has basically been set up for failure from the begining. Whether it's the girl who flat out told me that she would end up completely destroying my life if I stayed with her, or the amazing girl who happened to live 3000+ miles away, or the most recent...the little sister of my best friend. Where there was enough of an age gap to shock most people.

what is so wrong with me that I cant love someone unless I'm doomed from the start? I really hope I can find it out because I'm pretty sure this cycle is gonna keep repeating =(

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oh yeah..you should upload more songs that I can listen to. =D

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But I went to work at 4... =(. Well I went to volunteer and hang out with my friend at 4. But shortly after that I was at work. It's unfortunate you aren't a night owl like myself. Cause I got off early and I wish I could talk with you. It sucks that I probably won't be able to ever talk to you on the phone. I imagine that you would have a soothing voice. :D

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yo G. how my homedawg be

jk...i know i'm the only gangsta in this relationship. x3
still alive on DA?

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haha...not really.

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thanks for the faves :P

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Of course :D

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